"They don't fit me!"

"It affects my performance"

Some people find it hard to keep an erection with a condom on. Often this is because the first time you try and use a condom is when you're just about to have sex. You find your erection starts to go, you worry about it, and then you lose your erection and associate it with the condom. You're also worried what the person you are about to have sex with might think and that makes you even more anxious. The trick is to practice putting them on away from the "crucial moment" - learn to enjoy sex with a condom on. Try masturbating with a condom on and learn to stay hard and orgasm so you can enjoy sex with a condom on and feel confident you'll stay hard next time you're having sex with someone.