When to start having sex?

Sometimes it seems like everyone is having sex, and if you haven't done it yet, there can be pressure from all sides - from friends, TV, adverts, music and elsewhere. The pressure can seem even more intense if you're in a relationship, but if you don't feel ready yet, don't let anyone push you into having sex for the wrong reasons.

Someone might try to put pressure on you by saying:

• They love you. If you feel the same, you'll want to do it too.
• You're both mature enough.
• It's a sign that you're committed.

You might think:

• I'll lose them if I don't.
• Everybody does it; maybe I should.
• I want to but in my own time.
• I don't want to; but how do I say so?

But remember, it's your body, your choice and your right to say no.